About raising hand in front of grave and reading quran at Qabr!!

Assalam-O-Alikum. Is it proved to raise hands for pray individually on a grave for the buried person and other buried persons near the grave and also Is it proved to raise hands for pray collectively on a grave for the buried person and other buried persons near the grave. Is it proved to recite the Holy Quran in a low voice on a grave to gift the buried person? And what is the order regarding the recitation in loudly voice? JazakAllah

Answer

It is permissible to raise the hands and pray at the Qabr. This is proven 

through the practice of Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam). (Ahsanul 

Fataawa part4 pg.234)

It is desirable (Mustahabb) to recite the Qur'aan, Azkaar and Du'aas at the 

Qabr in a low voice. To recite these is a loud voice is Makrooh. (Tahtaawi 

pg.333)

and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best

Mufti Ebrahim Desai